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This Sunday, Pastor Joey Sampaga unpacked this profound truth in “The Transformed Sinner: Love Flowing from Forgiveness, Luke 7:36-50,” revealing that in the heart of Jesus’ ministry, we encounter one of the most beautiful pictures of grace, forgiveness, and transformed love in all of Scripture.

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The Transformed Sinner
Luke 7:36-50

Good morning! That was a high note there. Anyone hit that? They call that the whistle note. No one knows the whistle note. I think Gina knows the whistle note.

Let’s continue praying for one another. Let’s pray for those who are traveling. I think Grandma and Anne are traveling. I don’t know who else is traveling, but pray for them. Pray for those who are feeling well in the church. Let’s continue to encourage one another. Women’s ministry is meeting on the 20th. That’s going to be the first of the women’s ministry, so everyone attend that except for the men. You have to be a woman to attend.

Opening Scripture and Foundation

We are going to be in Luke chapter 7. If you have your Bibles, get there. I encourage you to always have your Bibles because, as our fundamentals of faith clash of notice states, 2 Timothy 3:16-17: “All scripture is inspired by God, profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, for training in righteousness, so that the man of God may be complete and adequate for every good work.”

It’s important that you have that so you can follow along, and secondly, make sure that what’s being preached—whether it’s here or any other Bible study or sermons you listen to—is being preached in context.

Context from Previous Teaching

Going back to Luke chapter 7, we last learned about John the Baptist being in prison and how he wrestled with doubts. He even sent messengers to go see Jesus. Remember, we’re talking about John the Baptist who was preaching about repentance. He was calling Pharisees “brood of vipers.” He was very, very bold, but he was put in a situation where he started to have these little doubts and asked Jesus in chapter 7 verse 19: “Are you the one who is to come, or shall we look for another?”

You can sense that doubt, but Jesus didn’t answer with theory but with evidence. If you recall, he was healing—healing the blind, healing the lame to walk, lepers he cleansed, and the poor were hearing the good news, the gospel. Then he praised John. He didn’t put him down. He praised John and called him one of the greatest, if not the greatest of prophets, but reminded all that the least in the kingdom is greater because they see what John only anticipated.

But the Pharisees that were there rejected John’s baptism, and they also rejected Jesus’ ministry. Why? Because of pride. They were too self-righteous to repent. So that brings us directly into today’s story, today’s passage, where Jesus confronts the self-righteousness, not with argument, but with a living testimony—a forgiven sinner overflowing with love.

Opening Prayer

Lord God, Heavenly Father, we thank you for your word today that you’re going to reveal to us. Lord, we ask that you reveal both the depth of our sins and the greatness of your mercy. Lord God, we pray that today we won’t just understand this passage with our mind, but embrace its truth in our hearts and our souls. Lord God, may we see ourselves rightly in light of your holiness—that we are not righteous no matter how hard we try, but we’re only righteous because of you. And may we see Jesus as our only hope for forgiveness.

Father, I pray for each and every one here that you bless them, that you give them a clear mind, give them clarity. And that you give my words—or your words—clarity through my mouth, Lord. That you allow your Holy Spirit to fill me, to reduce me, and increase you. Father, we thank you. We love you. We praise you.

The Setting: Two Different Responses

Jesus accepts an invitation to dine at a Pharisee’s home named Simon. Now Pharisees prided themselves on their holiness on the outside—their holiness that they were showing off, their religion, their religiosity, their external performance. But they weren’t showing their inner transformation because they didn’t have an inner transformation. It was all about how good they looked on the outside.

And into this respectable dinner comes this woman whose reputation was shameful. Most likely a prostitute, as we’ll read about. Now to Simon the Pharisee, she was an interruption. “Who is this woman walking into our dinner?” To Jesus, she was the illustration of what grace can do.

Reading the Text (Luke 7:36-38)

Let’s take a look at verse 36: “One of the Pharisees asked him to eat with him, and he went into the Pharisee’s house and reclined at the table. And behold, a woman of the city, who was a sinner, when she learned that he was reclining at the table in the Pharisee’s house, brought an alabaster flask of ointment, and standing behind him at his feet, weeping, she began to wet his feet with her tears and wipe them with the hair of her head, and kissed his feet and anointed them with the ointment.”

Can you imagine that? Husbands, can you imagine your wives doing that for you? Anointing your feet with perfume or oil and then wiping it, washing it with her tears and then wiping it with her hair? I don’t think that ever happens in today’s society or culture.

The Contrast in Hospitality

Simon, if you look at this passage we just read, offers Jesus no hospitality at all—no basic hospitality, no water for his dusty feet, no kiss of greeting like what they typically would do, no oil for refreshments. He treats Jesus coldly like a suspect, not a guest. When he invited Jesus, he said, “Jesus, or rabbi,” maybe there was that type of respect there. “Come on in and let’s have dinner. I want to talk to you. I want to ask you questions.” Most likely that’s what he did.

When you contrast that with the woman who walked in, she goes far beyond the custom of greeting, of hospitality. She offers not water, but tears. Not a towel, but her hair. Not a simple kiss, but continually kissing him on the feet. Not cheap oil, but expensive perfume.

She may be—what did the scripture say? She was “the woman of the city.” Most likely, that’s translated as being a prostitute. If you look at today’s influencers or women on OnlyFans, where they show more than what they should be showing, and guys are paying them to do that, these women are rich from that. It shouldn’t change back then. The prostitutes, the women of the city, were probably wealthy. That’s why she had that expensive alabaster flask of perfume. And that’s what she used to wash Jesus’ feet.

But her actions only shouted one thing: gratitude born of forgiveness. She knew that Jesus was the Messiah, or at least she thought that, and she knew that if he was the Messiah, he would be forgiving her sins. So she was there, she did all she could to show her faith and gratitude towards him.

Psalm 116:1 says, “I love the Lord because he has heard my voice and my pleas for mercy.” She had this feeling inside of her, probably the Holy Spirit saying, “This man here is the Messiah. He is fully man and fully God, and he is going to forgive your sins.” So she did what she felt like she needed to do.

The Heart of the Matter

The Pharisee gives Jesus religion without love—religion, not love. The woman gives Jesus worship flowing from forgiveness. Which are you? Or which are we more like? Are we like the Pharisee? Is that how your faith is? Or are you like the woman? Are you thankful so much to the point that you get on your knees and you pray and you thank the Lord that he’s forgiven you of your sins? Or are you like the Pharisee who thinks that they’re already living a righteous life?

Simon’s Inner Thoughts (Luke 7:39)

In verse 39, this is where the Pharisee’s heart is broken. “Now when the Pharisee who had invited him saw this, he said to himself—not out loud, but to himself—’If this man were a prophet, he would have known who and what sort of woman this is who is touching him, for she is a sinner.'”

That’s what he was thinking. Simon doesn’t see Jesus rightly and doesn’t see himself rightly. He doesn’t see Jesus as the Son of God, the Messiah, the Savior. He sees him as someone probably pretending to be a prophet, maybe just a good teacher. And he certainly doesn’t see the woman as being right at all because she was a prostitute.

He recognizes the woman’s sin, but he ignores his own. Even though we’re Christians, we are not perfect. We are not righteous on our own. We’re only perfect and righteous through Christ’s righteousness. Isaiah 64:6 says, “We have all become like one who is unclean, and all our righteous deeds are like polluted garments or filthy rags.” Any good we try to do outside of Jesus is filthy rags to the Lord. An unbeliever lives a moral life and does all these volunteer works and does good morally—to God, that’s still rags. Why? Because they’re sinful. They’re sinners. Just like all of us. They’re all sinners.

Self-righteousness blinds us. Simon the Pharisee thought he was close to God because of his law-keeping: “I keep the law.” But in reality, his pride kept him farther from God than the prostitute at Jesus’ feet.

The Parable of Two Debtors (Luke 7:41-42)

Verse 41: “A certain moneylender had two debtors. One owed 500 denarii and the other 50. When they could not pay, he canceled the debt of both.” Then he asked this question: “Now which of them will love him more?”

Jesus tells this simple story. One debtor owes two months worth of wages and the other nearly two years worth of wages. Both are now bankrupt, but both are forgiven. Who is more thankful? Probably the one who owes two years worth of wages, right? Because there’s a lot more to forgive. One who is forgiven more is more thankful.

The Gospel Message

Here is the gospel message in this passage. We all owe a debt we cannot pay. There’s nothing we can do to pay for our debt of sins. Because once you sin, you’re now damned to hell. You will now pay God’s wrath. There’s no way we can pay for that on our own. Not enough good works to do. So whether we see ourselves as small sinners or big sinners, the truth is the same. We’re all spiritually bankrupt. And that’s one thing we need to realize.

You have churches out there saying, “Oh, just do enough good,” or false religions: “Do all these works and you’ll be fine. Do more good than bad, you’ll be fine.” But what does Romans 3:23 say? “All have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God.” Romans 6:23 says, “For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.” Colossians 2:14: “By canceling the record of debts that stood against us with its legal demands, this he set aside, nailing it to the cross.”

So all of our sins—past, present, and future—were nailed to that cross of Jesus Christ. He made Jesus to be sin who knew no sin, and he took his wrath out on him. Now there are some churches or people or teachers who say that God did nothing to Jesus, that it was the Roman soldiers, Pontius Pilate, religious leaders that did all that, which is true. But that’s who God used to punish his son on that cross. Because God has to punish someone for our sins. It’s either going to be you or it’s going to be Jesus. And if you’re a Christian, Jesus took on that sin for you.

To say God didn’t punish his son is wrong because God had to pour out his wrath on someone. And he had to do it on him. But it was costly to the forgiver, which is God. God absorbs the debt through Christ’s death on the cross. So God punished his only begotten son, and Jesus, the son of God, took on that punishment for us so that we would be forgiven. That’s the free gift to us. But in order to do that, of course, we need to respond to the gospel of Jesus Christ. We need to repent from our sins and put our faith and trust in Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior.

A Personal Illustration

In my chaplain job, there was a lady who saved up her money as she was working—this is in the senior community. She had enough money to sustain her in the retirement home or facility that I work at until she died. She had annuities that would mature and then she would use that to pay. However, her daughter got sick with a long sickness. She had what’s called SIRS—I forget what that stands for, but it was because of mold and the environment that she was around. It cost a lot of money and she cashed in a lot of her annuities to help her daughter. Now she’s getting kicked out of the home because she has no money to pay.

That’s such a sad situation. There’s nothing that she can do. She did that for her daughter, and her daughter really feels bad about that. She’s trying to do all she can to help her find a group home that was less expensive. Thank God it was a group home, so praise the Lord. I’m so happy for what happened. But you see, there was a consequence. She helped her daughter because she was sick, and now she got booted out even though she was all set and ready to go. She got booted out because she just didn’t have enough.

Jesus Confronts Simon (Luke 7:44-46)

So Jesus now turns the spotlight on Simon’s lack of love, the Pharisee’s lack of love. Look at verse 44: “Do you see this woman? I entered your house. You gave me no water for my feet, but she has wet my feet with her tears and wiped them with her hair. You gave me no kiss, but from the time I came in, she has not ceased to kiss my feet. You did not anoint my head with oil, but she has anointed my feet with ointment.”

Jesus allowed her to do that. You know, it seemed degrading, but it wasn’t. It was actually a beautiful thing. Because think about it: Jesus has no ill will or no ill thinking. Like some of us, if a woman, a prostitute was wiping our feet with oil and kissing our feet, there are going to be things—negative things or perverted things—that’s probably going to run in our heads. But with Jesus, because he’s perfect and he’s God and he’s sinless, he saw that as loving. He sees it as loving. He knows it as loving. And because the prostitute knew that Jesus was who he was, she knew that he wasn’t thinking that.

Simon offered nothing to Jesus. The woman gave everything. Everything. Why? Because she knew the depth of the forgiveness that she was going to get—the depth that she already received from Jesus.

The Principle Explained (Luke 7:47)

Verse 47: “Therefore I tell you, her sins, which are many, are forgiven, for she loved much. But he who is forgiven little loves little.”

This doesn’t mean love earns forgiveness. Rather, forgiveness produces love. The greater our grasp of grace, the greater our gratitude. Even if you weren’t living a life of crime—let’s say you were saved when you were a child or when you were younger, and you weren’t living a lifestyle that was crazy—you’ve got to keep in mind all the sins in your head that you fought. Every time you disobeyed your parents, every time you did something to sin against someone else, that’s a debt you won’t be able to pay.

And then those who were maybe saved later in life, maybe who did live a life of crime and not so good things, they lived as criminals, and then they were saved, they’re going to feel so grateful for that. But I tell you, even if you didn’t live like that criminal did, you ought to be just as grateful as that criminal who was living a criminal life. Because your sins were done against the Lord, and the Lord hates sin. He hates it. He hates it so much that he damns people to hell because of sin.

But when we become Christians, we are loved. 1 John 4:19: “We love because he first loved us.” We have to remember that type of love. When we put our faith and trust in Jesus Christ, that love becomes unconditional for us. If a person is still an unbeliever, there is a condition there. God still loves you. He allows you to breathe the air. He allows you to walk around. He allows you to hear the gospel. He allows you to respond to the gospel. That’s the mercy he still shows you. That’s the love that he still shows you.

But eventually, when you pass through this world as an unbeliever, he then pours his wrath on you. For Christians, he poured it on Jesus. So either you have it where Jesus took on your wrath, or you take on your own wrath—the consequences of your own sins.

The Final Declaration (Luke 7:48-50)

Verse 48: “And he said to her, ‘Your sins are forgiven.’ Then those who were at the table with him began to say among themselves, ‘Who is this who even forgives sins?’ And he said to the woman, ‘Your faith has saved you. Go in peace.'”

Think of the point that the day and the time that you were saved, you were this woman. God tells us, “Your faith has saved you. Go in peace.” And when he means peace, he means go and be obedient. Does it mean we’re going to stop sinning? Most likely not. However, we’re going to feel that conviction from the Holy Spirit. And our lifestyle changes because we’re now being transformed from the inside out—to love what he loves and to hate what he hates.

See, forgiveness is not earned by tears or acts of devotion. It is received by faith. It is received by faith. Love is not the root of salvation, but the fruit of salvation. And Jesus sends her away, not in shame, but in peace. Shalom with God.

Ephesians 2:8-9: “For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing. It is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast.”

The Heart of the Gospel

This is the heart of the gospel: salvation by grace through faith resulting in love. When I’m preaching from the New Testament or even the Old Testament, you ought to see the gospel in all of the passages. Because remember, the Old Testament points forward to Jesus. And the New Testament points back to Jesus. Ultimately, it’s about the gospel of Jesus Christ.

What Can We Learn?

So what can we learn from this sermon today?

First: See Yourself Rightly

See yourself the way you are. The way you truly are. Who you truly are. We’re all debtors before God. We’re all sinners. We’re all trespassers before God. Whether raised in a church or rescued from the streets, all need forgiveness. Because all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God. If we’re to come to Jesus in faith, forgiveness is found in him alone and only him. He is the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father but through Jesus alone.

Second: Respond with Gratitude

Do you respond in gratitude every single day? Do you thank God for doing what he did for you? The way that he saved you from the damnation, the wrath of God, eternity in hell. How much do you love Christ? Well, your love reflects how deeply you realize your forgiveness—by knowing how much God forgave you, how much he sacrificed to forgive you.

Third: Reject Self-Righteousness

Don’t be like Simon the Pharisee. Don’t be religious on the outside and showing goodness on the outside and then dead on the inside. Because eventually, your flesh is going to tell on your heart. If your heart and your soul is still tainted with sin and you live a lifestyle of sin or you think of that, eventually your flesh is going to show it.

Fourth: Live as a Testimony

The greatest witness to the world is a life transformed by Christ’s forgiveness. We’re to walk around being lights in this dark world—to show God’s love, to pray for others, to share the gospel of Jesus Christ to unbelievers. The highest form of love you can show an unbeliever is to share the gospel. And that’s what we ought to do. Not just here in church, but in your neighborhood, in your workplace, in your schools if you’re going to school, in the malls, in your car while you’re driving. We need to show God’s love. That’s our testimony.

Authentic Christian Living

Because when a person claims to be a Christian, and they do wrong all the time and that’s their lifestyle, guess what that’s going to do for the testimony of the gospel? It taints it. It taints your testimony. “Oh, yeah, this guy claims to be a Christian, but he loves to go to the strip club” or the words that he uses. He uses the F word every other word. “Oh, I’m an effing Christian. Shut the F up. Put your faith and trust in the gospel or else you’ll be damned to hell!” That’s not powerful words.

What’s going to happen is if a person is a Christian and they curse all the time, their cursing will start to slowly go away, if not quickly go away, because of the sanctification process—the change that God makes from the inside out. Those things will start to go away.

If you say you’re a Christian and you look at the point that you think you were saved but your lifestyle hasn’t changed, then you need to investigate. You need to re-look at your faith. But if you’ve seen the change and other people see the change in you, then most likely you are saved. When you sin and you feel that conviction and you feel bad about it, you’re most likely saved. But if you’re sinning and you don’t care, “Oh, that’s their problem,” then that’s concerning.

Church Discipline and Growth

I hear sometimes women will come in dressed in mini skirts and they go to the church and they go, “Well, that’s their problem. They shouldn’t be looking at me anyway. They should be focusing on the sermon.” Well, guess what? We all live in the flesh and guys are attracted to that. Their eyes just automatically go to that.

What happens is when that person who normally wears mini skirts comes to church, as their sanctification starts to happen, their dress starts to get more modest. Now, if someone came in here all of a sudden with a really short skirt, should we go to them and condemn them and say, “You can’t come in here”? Or if someone’s living a lifestyle of LGBTQ, for instance, should we kick them out of the church? No, not at first.

If they continue to live their lifestyle in that manner and we see no change, then they’re probably not saved and we approach them in the way we’re supposed to discipline, according to the Bible. If it was a woman, well, the women of the church who are mature have to start to talk with her lovingly and gently. Take them to the Bible and say, “This is where it says we ought to dress modestly.” And you’ll start to see their attitude and transformation start to happen.

You see that with a lot of these—let’s say those who used to be superstars or singers who became Christian, or these OnlyFans women who became Christians. You see that they wipe out their website, their clothes start to get more modest, and you start to see the evidence and the proof of them becoming a true Christian or becoming more mature in their Christian faith. Because we don’t change just like that.

Spiritual Maturity

Sometimes we can stay a baby Christian. When I say baby Christian, you can be a Christian for 30 years, 50 years, whatever it is, but still, because you don’t spend time with the Lord in the Bible—you only come to Bible studies, you learn once a week, you go to a sermon, you listen to that, and you try your best to live out what you think it says—versus studying God’s word. When you start to study God’s word, it starts to become ingrained in your heart, and then you start to live out your Christian life, and you start to mature.

There are some who are new to the faith, but they are so focused on God’s word that they start to mature even faster than those who have been Christians for 30-plus years.

As a church, we’re here to uplift everyone, encourage people. That’s part of our mission as a church—to preach the gospel of Jesus Christ, to reach out to the lost for the love of Jesus. And when they get in the church, we’re to teach believers the truth of the Bible. That’s why we have these classes. That’s why we have Sunday school. That’s why the children have Sunday school—so that we can teach them God’s truth.

When you start to be serious about your faith, you’ll start to learn. And yes, it becomes head knowledge, but sometimes head knowledge is what we need because there are days when we’re tired, we’re stressed, we have a lot of anxiety, and we don’t know what to do. Our flesh gets weak, and we’re going to go sin, and then we have to think, “Oh, wait a minute, I remember. I remember what the Bible says, and so I’m going to be obedient to what the Bible says.” You have the knowledge, but now you’ve got to take that knowledge and then you have to put it into action. Especially when your flesh is feeling weak. Especially when you’re upset. Especially when you’re mad at people.

Personal Application

When I heard about Charlie Kirk [context unclear from transcription], the first thing that came to my mind was sadness. And then after that was extreme anger. I was angry. When I was watching YouTube videos and they say, “You know, us conservatives, it’s time to stand up,” I was like, “Yeah. Let’s not take it anymore from these pink-haired, blue-haired, leftist people.” That was my thought. But then I remembered what God said. He said we need to love our enemies and pray for our enemies. As much as I wanted to stand up and not take it anymore, because the Holy Spirit lives in me, I know he can give me strength to love him, to pray for him, to forgive him.

That’s how a true Christian works. And I’m not saying that I’m that perfect Christian. Paul says, “Imitate me.” I’m telling you, don’t imitate me. I’m still a work in progress, although I’m trying to be my best.

When you become a Christian, you have to love others. We have to also understand, even as Christians, we have to have that gratitude to the Lord, knowing that you were going to go to hell. You were going to take on God’s wrath. But because of his love, he poured it out on his son. With the condition that you put your faith and trust in Jesus Christ as your Savior. That’s when you’ll experience agape love from the Lord in an unconditional way. Now, if you’re an unbeliever, it’s conditional.

Closing Prayer

Let’s pray. Lord God, Heavenly Father, thank you so much for your love, your grace, and your mercy. Thank you for saving us, Lord God. Lord, we can never repay what you’ve done for us. Thank you, Jesus, for willingly going to that cross, taking on the wrath of God the Father. Thank you for allowing yourself to be shamed and ridiculed and mocked and spat on for our sake.

Father, I pray for those who have not truly put their faith and trust in you, Lord, that you would convict them today, that you would wake them up to the gospel of your son, Jesus Christ, who died on the cross for sinners, who was buried in a tomb, three days later raised from the dead, who’s seated at your right hand, who will come again to judge the living and the dead. That’s what they need to believe in. They truly believe in that because that is the gospel. And when they do that, Lord, when they cry out for forgiveness and they repent from their sins—meaning to turn away from their sins and return to you—you’ve promised. Father, if there’s someone here who needs to do that today, let them do that today. Thank you.

Lord God, as Christians, I pray that we have the desire to grow our relationship with you through your word, through fellowship with other saints, other fellow believers, to encourage one another, to uplift one another, to guide one another, to correct one another in love and grace and gently, in gentleness, with kindness and patience.

Father, I thank you so much. Thank you for your word. Thank you for teaching us. Thank you for showing us what being judgmental is all about. And Lord, please remove that from us. That we see people the way you see people, Lord. That we love them the way you do. Lord God, so that when they come into that situation where they want to judge people, they see them as you see them instead.

Father, we thank you. We love you. We praise you. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

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For Pastor Joey’s sermon, we offered prompts to ClaudeAI to initiate a sermon narrative and additional notes drawn from his delivery:

The Transformed Sinner:
Love Flowing from Forgiveness

A Bible Study and Sermon on Luke 7:36-50

Introduction

Luke 7:36-50 presents us with a dinner party that becomes a divine demonstration of how genuine forgiveness produces overflowing love. This passage challenges our understanding of sin, grace, and the appropriate response to God’s mercy.

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I. THE SETTING: A COLLISION OF WORLDS (Luke 7:36-38)

The Players in the Drama

Simon the Pharisee (v. 36)

• A religious leader who invited Jesus to dinner
• Represented the established religious order
• Likely curious about Jesus but maintaining social distance
• His name, “Simon,” means “hearing” – yet he struggles to hear Jesus’ message truly

The Sinful Woman (vv. 37-38)

• Described simply as “a woman in that town who lived a sinful life”
• Traditional interpretation suggests prostitution, though the text doesn’t specify
• Her reputation was well-known throughout the community
• She came uninvited, bringing an expensive alabaster jar of perfume

Jesus (v. 36)

• The honored guest who accepts the invitation
• The bridge between two worlds: religious respectability and social rejection
• The one who sees hearts rather than reputations

The Shocking Scene (vv. 37-38)

The woman’s actions were culturally scandalous:

• She entered uninvited – Social protocol demanded an invitation
• She approached Jesus directly – Women didn’t typically interact with male teachers publicly
• She wept over His feet – Her tears became the water for washing
• She used her hair – Jewish women kept their hair covered; this was intimate and improper
• She kissed His feet – An act of profound reverence and love
• She poured expensive perfume – This jar likely represented her life savings

Cultural Context

In first-century Palestine:

• Dinner parties were semi-public events where uninvited people could observe from the margins
• Guests reclined on couches with feet extended away from the table
• Servants typically performed foot-washing before the meal
• The woman’s actions would have created a scandal among the religious elite

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II. THE PHARISEE’S JUDGMENT (Luke 7:39)

Simon’s Silent Criticism

“When the Pharisee who had invited him saw this, he said to himself, ‘If this man were a prophet, he would know who is touching him and what kind of woman she is—that she is a sinner.'”

The Nature of His Judgment:

• Silent condemnation – He didn’t voice his criticism openly
• Categorical thinking – He saw only her sin, not her heart
• Religious superiority – He assumed his moral standing was superior
• Testing Jesus – He used this moment to evaluate Jesus’ prophetic credentials

The Irony of His Position:

• He questioned Jesus’ prophetic ability while Jesus was about to demonstrate supernatural knowledge of his very thoughts
• He focused on the woman’s past while missing the transformation happening before his eyes
• He invited Jesus as a curiosity, but wasn’t prepared for a genuine encounter

The Heart of Pharisaism

Simon represents a common religious mindset:

• External focus – More concerned with appearances than heart transformation
• Comparative righteousness – Feeling good about himself by comparing himself to “sinners”
• Conditional acceptance – Love and acceptance based on behavior rather than grace
• Spiritual blindness – Unable to recognize genuine spiritual transformation

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III. THE PARABLE OF THE TWO DEBTORS (Luke 7:40-43)

Jesus’ Penetrating Response (v. 40)

“Jesus answered him, ‘Simon, I have something to tell you.’ ‘Tell me, teacher,’ he said.”

Notice Jesus’ approach:

• He addresses Simon directly and personally
• He requests permission to speak, showing respect
• He uses the gentle title “teacher” that Simon offers
• He prepares to teach through story rather than confrontation

The Simple Story (vv. 41-42)

“Two people owed money to a certain moneylender. One owed him five hundred denarii, and the other fifty. Neither of them had the money to pay him back, so he forgave the debts of both. Now which of them will love him more?”

The Elements of the Parable:

• Two debtors – Both Simon and the woman
• Different amounts – 500 vs. 50 denarii (roughly 20 months vs. 2 months wages)
• Same inability – Neither could pay
• Same grace – Both debts were completely forgiven
• The question – Which one will love more?

Simon’s Logical Answer (v. 43)

“Simon replied, ‘I suppose the one who had the bigger debt forgiven.’ ‘You have judged correctly,’ Jesus said.”

Simon’s response reveals:

• Intellectual understanding – He grasps the logic
• Emotional distance – His tentative “I suppose” shows reluctance
• Unconscious self-revelation – He doesn’t yet realize he’s describing himself and the woman

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IV. THE APPLICATION: CONTRASTING RESPONSES (Luke 7:44-47)

Jesus’ Pointed Comparison (vv. 44-46)

“Then he turned toward the woman and said to Simon, ‘Do you see this woman? I came into your house. You did not give me any water for my feet, but she wet my feet with her tears and wiped them with her hair. You did not give me a kiss, but this woman, from the time I entered, has not stopped kissing my feet. You did not put oil on my head, but she has poured perfume on my feet.'”

The Contrast in Hospitality:

Simon’s Actions	Woman’s Actions
No water for feet	Tears and hair for washing
No greeting kiss	Continuous kissing of feet
No oil for the head	Expensive perfume on feet
Minimum courtesy	Maximum devotion
Duty fulfilled	Love overflowing

The Spiritual Principle (v. 47)

“Therefore, I tell you, her many sins have been forgiven—as her great love has shown. But whoever has been forgiven little loves little.”

Understanding This Crucial Verse:

• “Her many sins have been forgiven” – Past tense, already accomplished
• “As her great love has shown” – Her love is evidence of forgiveness, not the cause
• The principle – The depth of perceived forgiveness determines the intensity of love

Two Possible Interpretations:

1. Quantitative – Those forgiven more sins love more (traditional view)
2. Qualitative – Those who recognize the magnitude of their forgiveness love more (preferred view)

The key insight: It’s not that Simon had fewer sins, but that he perceived his need for forgiveness as minimal.

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V. THE DECLARATION OF FORGIVENESS (Luke 7:48-50)

Jesus’ Authoritative Words (v. 48)

“Then Jesus said to her, ‘Your sins are forgiven.'”

This declaration:

• Confirms what had already occurred – Her actions showed prior forgiveness
• Provides public assurance – She receives confirmation before witnesses
• Demonstrates Jesus’ authority – Only God can forgive sins

The Guests’ Reaction (v. 49)

“The other guests began to say among themselves, ‘Who is this who even forgives sins?'”

Their question reveals:

• Theological understanding – They knew only that God forgives sins
• Growing realization – Jesus was claiming divine prerogative
• The central issue – Jesus’ identity was becoming clear

Jesus’ Final Words (v. 50)

“Jesus said to the woman, ‘Your faith has saved you; go in peace.'”

The Elements of Salvation:

• Faith – Her trust in Jesus brought salvation
• Salvation – Complete deliverance from sin and its consequences
• Peace – She leaves with wholeness, reconciliation, and rest

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VI. THEOLOGICAL THEMES

1. The Nature of Sin and Forgiveness

Universal Need:

• Both Simon and the woman were debtors
• Neither could pay their debt
• Both needed forgiveness equally

The Grace of God:

• Forgiveness is complete cancellation, not partial payment
• God’s grace is offered to both religious and irreligious
• Moral respectability doesn’t reduce our need for grace

2. The Relationship Between Forgiveness and Love

The Proper Order:

• Forgiveness precedes love, not vice versa
• Love flows from forgiveness, not toward earning it
• Recognition of forgiveness determines the intensity of love

The Danger of Self-Righteousness:

• Pharisaism minimizes personal sin
• Comparative righteousness blinds us to grace
• Religious pride prevents transformation

3. Jesus’ Authority and Identity

Claims to Divinity:

• Only God can forgive sins
• Jesus exercises divine prerogative
• His authority extends over both sin and salvation

The Perfect Mediator:

• He bridges the gap between holy God and sinful humanity
• He offers grace to both respectable and scandalous
• He sees the heart, while others see only externals

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VII. PRACTICAL APPLICATIONS

1. For Those Who Feel Disqualified by Sin

The Woman’s Example Shows:

• Past sin doesn’t disqualify you from Jesus’ presence
• Your reputation with people doesn’t determine your standing with God
• Genuine repentance opens the door to complete forgiveness
• Love for Jesus naturally flows from experiencing His grace

Action Steps:

• Come to Jesus, regardless of your past
• Don’t let shame keep you from worship
• Let gratitude for forgiveness motivate obedience
• Share your testimony of transformation

2. For Those Struggling with Religious Pride

Simon’s Example Warns:

• Comparative righteousness blinds us to our own need
• External compliance can mask internal rebellion
• Judging others prevents us from experiencing grace
• Intellectual understanding isn’t the same as heart transformation

Action Steps:

• Examine your heart for areas of pride
• Confess your need for daily forgiveness
• Practice grace toward those who struggle visibly with sin
• Cultivate humility through regular self-examination

3. For All Believers

The Passage Teaches:

• Regular reflection on forgiveness keeps love fresh
• Worship should flow from gratitude, not duty
• Our response to Jesus should be extravagant and heartfelt
• We must see people as Jesus sees them

Action Steps:

• Practice daily gratitude for forgiveness
• Look for opportunities to show extravagant love to Jesus
• Extend grace to others as you have received it
• Share the gospel with both “sinners” and “saints”

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Which Character Are You?

• Are you Simon, intellectually curious but emotionally distant?
• Are you the woman, overwhelmed by grace and responding with extravagant love?
• Are you one of the other guests, questioning Jesus’ identity?

Challenge: Let your love for Jesus be proportionate to your understanding of His forgiveness.

Luke 7:36-50 presents us with a beautiful picture of the gospel in action. At a dinner party in first-century Palestine, we see the collision between religious respectability and scandalous grace, between duty-driven faith and love-motivated worship, between those who think they need little forgiveness and those who know they need much.

The woman in this story becomes a model for all believers. Her extravagant display of love wasn’t the path to forgiveness but the overflow of forgiveness already received. Her actions were scandalous by social standards but beautiful by divine standards. She reminds us that genuine encounters with Jesus’ grace should produce generous responses of love.

Simon, meanwhile, serves as a warning. His intellectual curiosity about Jesus wasn’t matched by personal transformation. His social respectability masked spiritual poverty. His minimal response to Jesus reflected his minimal understanding of grace.

The challenge for modern believers is clear: Which character are you? Has your understanding of Jesus’ forgiveness for you produced overflowing love? Or have you settled into a pattern of minimal response based on a minimal understanding of grace?

The woman left that dinner party with words ringing in her ears: “Your faith has saved you; go in peace.” She had encountered Jesus, received forgiveness, expressed love, and found peace. May the same be true for all who truly understand the magnitude of God’s grace.

Final Thought: “We love because he first loved us” (1 John 4:19). The depth of our love reveals the depth of our understanding of His love for us. Let us be people whose love for Jesus flows from a heart overwhelmed by the grace we have received.

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“Therefore, I tell you, her many sins have been forgiven—as her great love has shown.
But whoever has been forgiven little loves little.”
Luke 7:47

PROMPT: Write some observations about the Pharisees who merely focused on outward appearance.

Observations About Pharisees and
Their Focus on Outward Appearance

Introduction

The Pharisees represent one of the most thoroughly documented religious movements in the New Testament, serving as both historical figures and spiritual cautionary tales. While they began with noble intentions – to preserve Jewish faith and practice during turbulent times – many fell into the trap of emphasizing external conformity over internal transformation. Jesus’ interactions with them reveal profound insights about human nature, religious pride, and the difference between true spirituality and mere religious performance.

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1. The Origins of Their External Focus

Historical Context

The Pharisees emerged during the intertestamental period as a response to Hellenistic influence and foreign domination. Their name likely derives from the Hebrew “perushim,” meaning “separated ones,” reflecting their commitment to maintaining Jewish distinctiveness through careful observance of the Law.

Well-Intentioned Beginnings

• Preservation of faith: They sought to protect Jewish identity during cultural assimilation
• Democratization of religion: Unlike the Sadducees, who controlled the Temple, the Pharisees made religion accessible to common people
• Oral tradition: They developed detailed applications of biblical law for everyday situations
• Synagogue system: They promoted local worship and education

The Gradual Shift

What began as sincere devotion gradually became a performance-oriented religion. The focus shifted from heart transformation to rule compliance, from loving God to impressing people.

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2. Manifestations of External Focus

Obsession with Religious Performance (Matthew 6:1-8)

Public Prayer

• They chose prominent locations (street corners, synagogues) for maximum visibility
• Used lengthy, elaborate prayers to demonstrate supposed spirituality
• Focused on human applause rather than divine communion
• Treated prayer as a performance rather than a relationship

Ostentatious Giving

• Used trumpets or dramatic gestures when giving alms
• Gave publicly to receive human recognition and honor
• Calculated their generosity based on social impact rather than genuine compassion
• Made charity about themselves rather than those in need

Theatrical Fasting

• Disfigured their faces to advertise their sacrifice
• They chose visible times and places to demonstrate their discipline
• Used physical discomfort as a badge of spiritual superiority
• Turned personal devotion into a public spectacle

Ceremonial Legalism (Matthew 23:23-24)

Microscopic Attention to Minor Details

• Tithed garden herbs (mint, dill, cumin) down to the smallest portions
• Developed elaborate hand-washing rituals beyond biblical requirements
• Created detailed Sabbath restrictions that burdened rather than blessed
• Focused on measurable externals while ignoring weightier matters

Selective Obedience. Jesus criticized them for “straining out gnats while swallowing camels” – being meticulous about minor ceremonial laws while neglecting major moral principles like justice, mercy, and faithfulness.

Social Status and Recognition (Matthew 23:5-7)

Physical Displays of Religiosity

• Made their phylacteries (prayer boxes) extra large for visibility
• Extended the tassels on their garments to draw attention
• Wore distinctive clothing to advertise their religious status
• Used external symbols as spiritual credentials

Pursuit of Titles and Positions

• Sought places of honor at banquets and synagogues
• Desired respectful greetings in marketplaces
• Coveted religious titles like “Rabbi” or “Teacher”
• Measured their worth by social recognition rather than godly character

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3. Jesus’ Critique of External Religion

The Whitewashed Tombs Metaphor (Matthew 23:27-28)

Jesus used this vivid image to expose the disconnect between appearance and reality:

• Outward beauty: Tombs were whitewashed to look clean and attractive
• Inward corruption: Despite appearances, they contained death and decay
• The parallel: Religious performance could mask spiritual deadness
• The tragedy: Others might be impressed, while God saw the truth

The Clean Cup Illustration (Matthew 23:25-26)

“You clean the outside of the cup and dish, but inside they are full of greed and self-indulgence.”

• External religious acts don’t automatically purify the heart
• God’s primary concern is internal transformation
• True cleanliness begins from the inside and works outward
• External religion without internal change is ultimately futile

The Heart Issue (Matthew 15:7-9)

“These people honor me with their lips, but their hearts are far from me.”

• Worship can become mere lip service
• God desires heart engagement, not just ritual observance
• External acts without internal devotion are empty
• True religion must engage the whole person, especially the heart

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4. The Tragic Consequences of External Focus

Spiritual Blindness

Their obsession with externals prevented them from recognizing spiritual truth:

• Missed the Messiah: Despite their biblical knowledge, they failed to recognize Jesus
• Distorted priorities: Focused on ceremonial cleanliness while harboring hatred and pride
• False security: Trusted in their performance rather than God’s grace
• Self-deception: Believed their own spiritual propaganda

Hardened Hearts

External religion often produces callousness rather than compassion:

• Lack of mercy: They showed little grace toward struggling people
• Judgmental attitudes: Quick to condemn, slow to restore
• Relational dysfunction: Their relationships were transactional rather than genuine
• Emotional poverty: Performance-based faith often lacks joy and peace

Hindrance to Others

Their external focus created barriers rather than bridges:

• Burdened people: Imposed heavy religious requirements without offering help
• Misleading examples: Modeled religion as performance rather than a relationship
• Exclusive attitudes: Created “us versus them” mentalities
• Blocked access to God: Made religion seem unapproachable and harsh

Ultimate Rejection of Truth

Their commitment to external religion eventually led them to reject the very truth they claimed to serve, culminating in their opposition to Jesus himself.

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5. Modern Applications and Warnings

Contemporary Pharisaism

The Pharisaical spirit didn’t die in the first century. Modern believers can fall into similar traps:

Church Performance

• Attending services for social recognition rather than worship
• Participating in activities to maintain reputation rather than grow spiritually
• Using religious vocabulary to sound spiritual while hearts remain unchanged
• Measuring spirituality by external activities rather than internal transformation

Social Media Spirituality

• Posting religious content primarily for likes and comments
• Crafting an online spiritual persona that doesn’t match private reality
• Using faith as a brand rather than a relationship
• Seeking followers rather than following Jesus

Legalistic Tendencies

• Focusing on rule-keeping rather than love
• Creating unbiblical standards and imposing them on others
• Measuring spiritual maturity by external compliance
• Using religious performance to earn God’s approval

Comparative Christianity

• Feeling superior based on denominational affiliation
• Judging others’ spiritual state based on external appearances
• Creating insider/outsider mentalities within the church
• Using others’ struggles to feel better about our own spiritual condition

Warning Signs to Watch

Personal Red Flags:

• Finding more satisfaction in others’ approval than in God’s
• Being more concerned with reputation than character
• Feeling spiritually superior to other believers
• Focusing on others’ external failures while ignoring your own heart issues
• Using religious activities to avoid dealing with internal struggles

Church Red Flags:

• Emphasizing attendance and activities over transformation and relationships
• Creating a culture where appearance matters more than authenticity
• Measuring success by external metrics rather than spiritual growth
• Developing exclusive attitudes toward those who don’t fit certain molds
• Leadership that models performance rather than genuine spirituality

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6. The Alternative: Heart-Centered Faith

Jesus’ Model of Authentic Spirituality

Internal Focus

• Emphasized heart motivations over external actions
• Practiced private devotion alongside public ministry
• Showed compassion for broken people rather than impressive performances
• Demonstrated humility despite having ultimate authority

Relationship Over Religion

• Called people to follow him personally, not just follow rules
• Invited intimate friendship rather than mere discipleship
• Focused on loving God and others rather than maintaining appearances
• Emphasized grace and truth over performance and pretense

Service Over Status

• Washed disciples’ feet instead of seeking their honor
• Associated with social outcasts rather than the religious elite
• Used his power to serve others rather than advance himself
• Found identity in his relationship with the Father rather than human approval

Cultivating Authentic Faith

Start with the Heart

• Regular, honest self-examination before God
• Confession and repentance for both external and internal sins
• Seeking God’s approval rather than human applause
• Focusing on character development over performance improvement

Practice Private Spirituality

• Develop consistent private prayer and study habits
• Give and serve without seeking recognition
• Fast and sacrifice without advertising it
• Let your relationship with God be the foundation, not your religious activities

Embrace Authentic Community

• Be vulnerable about struggles and failures
• Show grace to others who are stumbling
• Focus on encouraging rather than impressing
• Build relationships based on authenticity rather than performance

Measure by Biblical Standards

• Evaluate spiritual growth by the fruit of the Spirit rather than religious activities
• Focus on loving God and loving others as the mark of maturity
• Seek transformation rather than just information
• Value progress over perfection

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7. Conclusion: The Heart of the Matter

The Pharisees’ focus on outward appearance serves as a perpetual warning to all religious people. Their story reminds us that it’s possible to be externally impressive while being spiritually bankrupt, to know Scripture while missing its heart, and to perform religious duties while neglecting a genuine relationship with God.

Their tragedy wasn’t that they cared about obedience or wanted to please God – these are good desires. Their tragedy was that they reversed God’s priorities, focusing on externals while neglecting the heart, emphasizing performance while missing relationship, and seeking human approval while losing divine approval.

Jesus came to offer something far better than external religion. He came to transform hearts, not just behavior. He came to offer a relationship, not just rules. He came to provide internal cleansing that naturally produces external fruit, rather than external compliance that leaves hearts unchanged.

The choice before every believer is the same one that faced the Pharisees: Will we settle for external religion that impresses people, or will we pursue authentic spirituality that transforms hearts? Will we measure our faith by human applause or divine approval? Will we focus on looking good or being good?

The Pharisees’ obsession with outward appearance ultimately led them to miss the very Savior they claimed to serve. May their example serve as both warning and invitation – warning us away from external religion and inviting us into the heart transformation that Jesus offers to all who come to him with humble, honest hearts.

Final Reflection: “Man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart” (1 Samuel 16:7). In the end, only one opinion truly matters – and God sees through every external performance to the reality of our hearts. The question isn’t whether we can fool others or even ourselves, but whether our hearts are genuinely surrendered to the God who sees all and loves us still.

PROMPT: Write some observations about the Pharisees and their focus on outward appearance. 

Key Areas Covered:

• The historical origins of their external focus and how good intentions became corrupted
• Specific manifestations of their performance-oriented religion (public prayer, ostentatious giving, ceremonial legalism)
• The psychological factors behind their behavior (spiritual insecurity, comparative righteousness, need for control)
• Jesus’ pointed critiques using vivid metaphors (whitewashed tombs, clean cups)
• The tragic consequences of their external focus (spiritual blindness, hardened hearts, hindering others)
• Modern applications and warnings for contemporary believers
• The alternative path of heart-centered, authentic faith

Main Insights: The Pharisees serve as a cautionary tale showing how religious devotion can become performance, how external compliance can mask internal corruption, and how seeking human approval can lead to missing God’s heart entirely. Their example warns against the universal human tendency to focus on appearance over reality in spiritual matters.

The observations emphasize that while the Pharisees were historically specific, the pharisaical spirit – prioritizing external religion over internal transformation – remains a constant temptation for religious people today. The antidote is authentic, heart-centered faith that focuses on a relationship with God rather than religious performance.

We have all become like one who is unclean,
    and all our righteous deeds are like a polluted garment.
We all fade like a leaf,
    and our iniquities, like the wind, take us away.

Isaiah 64:6

By canceling the record of debt that stood against us with its legal demands.
This he set aside, nailing it to the cross.

Colossians 2:14

PROMPT: How does the “woman of the city” contrast with the Pharisees?

The Woman and the Pharisees: A Study in Contrasts

In Luke 7:36-50, two worlds collide in Simon’s dining room. On one side stands a “woman of the city,” known for her sinful life, whose tears fall like rain on Jesus’ feet. On the other side sits Simon the Pharisee, religious and respectable, watching with calculating eyes. Their stark differences reveal the chasm between authentic spirituality and religious performance.

The woman enters carrying more than expensive perfume—she bears the weight of her failures and the hope of forgiveness. Every tear speaks of deep recognition of her spiritual bankruptcy. She has no illusions about her condition, no pretense of righteousness. Her brokenness has become the doorway to grace. Simon, by contrast, sits comfortably in his moral superiority, measuring Jesus against his theological expectations while remaining blind to his own spiritual poverty.

When the woman approaches Jesus, social conventions shatter like glass. She breaks every rule of propriety, using her hair as a towel, her tears as water, her lips as instruments of worship. Her most precious possession—the alabaster jar of perfume—becomes an offering poured out in extravagant devotion. This isn’t calculated worship; it flows from a heart overwhelmed by the magnitude of forgiveness received. Meanwhile, Simon offers Jesus the bare minimum of hospitality, withholding even basic courtesies like water for foot-washing, a greeting kiss, or oil for his head. His response reflects duty drained of devotion.

The theological divide runs deeper than social etiquette. The woman grasps something profound about grace—that she has been forgiven an impossible debt. Her great love evidences her understanding of great forgiveness. She operates from a place of overwhelming gratitude, knowing she has received what she could never earn or deserve. Simon operates from a merit-based system, feeling spiritually self-sufficient and seeing little need for significant forgiveness. Jesus’ parable about two debtors exposes this fundamental misunderstanding: those who feel they need little forgiveness will love little.

Their attitudes toward others reveal their hearts. The woman’s vulnerability creates no barriers to worship; her focus remains entirely on Jesus. Simon’s pride builds walls, creating categories of acceptable and unacceptable people while using others’ failures to reinforce his own righteousness. His judgmental spirit prevents him from recognizing the miracle of transformation happening before his eyes.

The worship styles couldn’t be more different. The woman’s devotion is spontaneous, costly, and intimate—flowing from internal transformation rather than external obligation. Simon’s religion remains measured, socially appropriate, and distant—based on compliance rather than heart engagement. She worships with abandon; he maintains religious propriety.

Their social positions prove deceptive. The woman, rejected by society but accepted by Jesus, receives what really matters: peace, forgiveness, and salvation. Simon, honored by society but spiritually distant from God, remains trapped in his self-righteousness despite having Jesus as his dinner guest. The reversal is complete—the last becomes first, the humble are exalted, and the poor in spirit inherit the kingdom.

Jesus’ final words crystallize the contrast: “Your faith has saved you; go in peace.” The woman departs transformed, her faith having translated into salvation and peace. Simon receives no such declaration. His intellectual understanding of Jesus’ parable fails to penetrate his heart or transform his life.

This tale of two hearts challenges every reader to examine their own response to Jesus. Are we overwhelmed by grace and responding with extravagant love, or are we maintaining religious respectability while keeping Jesus at arm’s length? The woman teaches us that no one is too far gone for God’s grace, while Simon warns us that religious pride can blind us to our desperate need for that same grace. In the end, what matters isn’t our social standing or religious knowledge, but our heart’s response to Jesus and our understanding of our own need for forgiveness.

PROMPT: What is the significance of the parable that Jesus told to Simon?

The Parable That Changed Everything

Simon the Pharisee sat in judgment, his thoughts cutting through the evening air like a blade. If this man were truly a prophet, he would know what kind of woman this is. The sinful woman’s tears fell on Jesus’ feet, her expensive perfume filling the room with its fragrance, but Simon saw only scandal.

Jesus turned to him with knowing eyes. “Simon, I have something to tell you.”

The request was courteous, respectful even, but Simon sensed something deeper coming. “Tell me, Teacher.”

“A certain moneylender had two debtors,” Jesus began, his voice carrying the cadence of a story. “One owed him five hundred denarii, the other fifty. When they could not pay, he graciously forgave them both. Tell me, which of them will love him more?”

The question hung in the air like incense. Simon, well-versed in logic, saw the obvious answer. “I suppose the one who was forgiven more.”

“You have judged correctly,” Jesus replied, but His words carried weight beyond simple affirmation.

Then came the turning. Jesus gestured toward the woman still ministering at His feet, her devotion unbroken by their conversation. The contrast was stark, undeniable. Simon had offered no water for dusty feet—she had washed them with tears and dried them with her hair. No kiss of greeting had passed Simon’s lips—she had not ceased kissing Jesus’ feet since she arrived. No oil had Simon provided for his guest—she had anointed Him with costly perfume.

The parable suddenly blazed with personal application. Simon, the fifty-denarii man in his own estimation, had loved little because he believed he had been forgiven little. The woman, aware of her five-hundred-denarii debt, loved much because she knew she had been forgiven much.

But here was the revelation that cut deepest: both debtors had been completely unable to pay. Whether fifty or five hundred, the debt was impossible. Both had received the same complete cancellation, the same radical grace. The difference lay not in God’s forgiveness, but in their recognition of their need.

Simon faced a mirror at this moment. His careful righteousness, his measured response to Jesus, his judgmental thoughts—all revealed a man who had minimized his own debt while maximizing another’s. He had positioned himself as the lesser sinner, deserving of less grace and therefore offering less love.

The woman’s extravagant worship suddenly made perfect sense. She had encountered forgiveness that cancelled an unpayable debt, and her response matched the magnitude of what she had received. Her love flowed from her forgiveness, not toward it.

Jesus had done more than tell a story. Through narrative, He had led Simon to judge himself, to see his own heart reflected in the parable’s truth. The Pharisee who had questioned Jesus’ prophetic ability had just witnessed the most profound kind of prophecy—the reading of his very soul.

The evening air grew thick with decision. Would Simon recognize himself as a five-hundred-denarii debtor, acknowledge his desperate need for the same grace the woman had found? Would he allow his heart to break open like expensive perfume, releasing a love proportional to the forgiveness he had received?

Or would he cling to his fifty-denarii self-image, his careful religion, his measured responses to the God who had offered him immeasurable grace?

The parable had revealed the heart of the gospel itself: that all are debtors who cannot pay, that God offers complete forgiveness freely, and that understanding this grace produces a love that transforms everything. The depth of Simon’s response would reveal the depth of his understanding of what he had been offered.

The woman continued her worship, her tears, perfume, and kisses speaking a language Simon was only beginning to understand—the language of love born from forgiveness, of extravagance born from grace, of worship born from wonder at debts that could never be repaid but had been completely cancelled.

The choice was his. The choice is always ours.

PROMPT: How do verses 44-47 demonstrate a contrast of love?

We love because he first loved us.

1 John 4:19

The Strategic Turn

In one of Scripture’s most dramatic moments, Jesus makes a deliberate physical gesture that transforms the entire encounter. “Then he turned toward the woman and said to Simon,” – this simple movement forces Simon to see the woman through divine eyes rather than his own prejudice. The act itself becomes prophetic, as Jesus literally turns away from the religious leader to focus on the transformed sinner while still addressing Simon’s hardened heart.

The penetrating question that follows cuts to the core of spiritual blindness: “Do you see this woman?” While Simon had categorized her as merely a “sinner” and a social problem, Jesus challenges him to truly perceive a person whom grace has touched and transformed. This question exposes how religious pride can blind us to God’s work in the most unexpected places and people.

The Devastating Comparison

What follows is perhaps the most methodical and devastating comparison found anywhere in Jesus’ teaching. With surgical precision, He contrasts Simon’s minimal hospitality against the woman’s extravagant worship, revealing the vast difference between duty-driven religion and grace-motivated devotion.

The first contrast centers on the most basic courtesy a host should provide. “You did not give me any water for my feet,” Jesus observes, “but she wet my feet with her tears and wiped them with her hair.” The stark difference is breathtaking. Simon couldn’t be bothered with providing ordinary water for dusty feet, while the woman offered something infinitely more precious – her own tears, the most intimate expression of her broken and grateful heart. Where Simon gave nothing, she gave everything she had.

The second comparison moves to the customary greeting between host and honored guest. “You did not give me a kiss,” Jesus continues, “but this woman, from the time I entered, has not stopped kissing my feet.” The contrast reveals two entirely different relationships with Jesus. Simon omitted even the basic social courtesy of a greeting kiss on the cheek, while the woman continuously kissed Jesus’ feet – the most humble part of His body – demonstrating her own humility and His supreme worth in her eyes. Her devotion was not momentary but constant, not obligatory but overflowing.

The final contrast completes the devastating picture. “You did not put oil on my head, but she has poured perfume on my feet.” Simon had withheld even the common courtesy oil that any decent host would provide for an honored guest’s head, while the woman had lavished expensive perfume on Jesus’ feet. The reversal is striking – she honored His feet with what Simon wouldn’t give to His head, showing both her humility and her understanding of His immeasurable worth.

The Heart of the Matter

These contrasts reveal far more than different approaches to hospitality. They expose two fundamentally different heart conditions and two radically different understandings of grace. Simon operated from a framework of minimum requirements and maximum self-preservation, while the woman responded from a heart overwhelmed by forgiveness and overflowing with gratitude.

The woman’s actions flowed from a deep recognition of her desperate need and the incredible mercy she had received. Her gratitude was not calculated or restrained by social convention. She had encountered grace that transformed her very identity, and her response was uninhibited worship that held nothing back. Every gesture spoke of complete surrender to the One who had set her free.

Simon, by contrast, revealed a heart of spiritual complacency and calculated religion. He measured himself against obvious sinners rather than against God’s holiness, maintaining safe emotional and spiritual boundaries that prevented genuine encounter with grace. Even his religious observance was filtered through concern for reputation and social standing rather than genuine devotion to God.

The Principle Revealed

Jesus then articulates the theological principle that explains this dramatic difference: “Therefore, I tell you, her many sins have been forgiven—as her great love has shown. But whoever has been forgiven little loves little.”

This statement reveals the logic of grace. The woman’s extravagant love was not the cause of her forgiveness but the evidence of forgiveness already received. Her great love demonstrated her understanding of great grace. She grasped her position as someone who had been completely forgiven an unpayable debt, and her response reflected that understanding.

The warning to Simon is equally clear. His minimal love revealed his minimal understanding of grace, not God’s limited forgiveness toward him. Simon had fallen into the dangerous trap of perceiving his need for forgiveness as small, which inevitably produced a small response of love. He saw himself as a minor debtor while viewing the woman as owing much, never recognizing that both debts were equally unpayable and both required the same complete cancellation.

Two Responses to the Same Jesus

The encounter reveals two people meeting the same Jesus with dramatically different results. The woman experienced transformation, worship born of faith, and the peace of sins forgiven. Her story becomes an eternal testimony to the power of grace to change lives and produce grateful devotion.

Simon, despite having Jesus as a guest in his own home, remained spiritually distant. There was no evidence of transformation, no genuine worship, and no peace. His performance-based approach to spirituality left him questioning Jesus’ prophetic abilities while missing the very demonstration of divine insight happening before his eyes.

The Mirror for Today

This contrast serves as a mirror for contemporary believers and churches. It challenges us to examine whether our love for Jesus reflects someone who understands they have been forgiven much or little. The woman’s story asks whether we approach Jesus with minimum religious duty or maximum devotion, whether our worship reveals hearts overwhelmed by grace or merely going through spiritual motions.

For church communities, this passage calls for creating space where authentic expressions of love for Jesus can flourish while warning against the Simon syndrome of minimal love masquerading as spiritual maturity. It reminds us that extravagant worship flows naturally from understanding extravagant grace.

The depth of our love for Christ remains the truest measure of our understanding of His love for us. Like Simon, we face the choice of recognizing ourselves as greatly forgiven debtors who respond with great love, or maintaining minimal awareness of grace and continuing to love little. The contrast Jesus draws is not merely historical but deeply personal, revealing the condition of our own hearts in the light of His infinite grace.

Conclusion: Two Roads, One Choice

Verses 44-47 present every reader with a choice between two approaches to Jesus:

Simon’s Path: Minimal engagement, maintained distance, duty-based religion, comparative righteousness, and ultimately missed transformation

The Woman’s Path: Maximum devotion, intimate worship, grace-based relationship, humble recognition of need, and ultimate transformation

The contrast of love demonstrated in these verses isn’t just historical observation – it’s spiritual diagnosis. Jesus is asking each of us the same question He asked Simon: “Do you see?” Do we see our need for grace? Do we see the magnitude of what we’ve been forgiven? Do we see how that should affect our love for Him?

The woman’s extravagant love wasn’t excessive – it was appropriate for someone who truly understood what she had been given. Simon’s minimal love wasn’t acceptable – it revealed his failure to grasp the grace being offered.

The passage challenges us: If we truly understood the debt we’ve been forgiven, wouldn’t our love for Jesus be more like the woman’s and less like Simon’s? The depth of our love reveals the depth of our understanding of His grace. These verses call us to examine not just what we do for Jesus, but the heart from which our actions flow.

In the end, the contrast of love in these verses teaches us that authentic Christianity isn’t about perfection – it’s about recognition. Those who recognize the magnitude of what they’ve been forgiven will naturally respond with magnificent love. Those who minimize their need for grace will inevitably minimize their love for the One who provides it.

PROMPT: Comment on the impact of Jesus’ words, “Your sins are forgiven.”

For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing;
it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast.

Ephesians 2:8-9

Jesus’ declaration “Your sins are forgiven” (Luke 7:48) represents one of the most profound and consequential statements in human history. These four simple words carry theological weight that transformed the woman’s life, shocked the observers, and continues to impact lives today.

The Weight of Divine Authority

A Claim to Deity

When Jesus spoke the words “Your sins are forgiven,” a hush must have fallen over Simon’s dining room. In Jewish understanding, only God possessed the authority to forgive sins. The guests’ immediate reaction reveals they grasped exactly what Jesus was claiming: “Who is this who even forgives sins?” they whispered among themselves.

This wasn’t intercession or mere pronouncement—Jesus exercised divine authority without hesitation or qualification. According to Isaiah 43:25, forgiveness of sins belonged exclusively to God’s prerogative, yet here was Jesus speaking as if He held that very authority. His words carried the weight of divine decree, simultaneously accomplishing legal justification, relational restoration, spiritual cleansing, and personal peace for the woman.

The Personal Impact

The woman had entered that house defined by her reputation as a sinner, bearing the weight of public shame that preceded her everywhere. But Jesus’ public declaration transformed her social standing in an instant. No longer would she be identified by her past failures—she was now defined by God’s grace.

Her actions throughout the evening suggested she had already experienced forgiveness internally; her extravagant love flowed from grace already received. Jesus’ words provided public confirmation and personal assurance of what had taken place in her heart. The gift was invaluable: absolute certainty about her standing with God. No longer would she wonder if God had truly accepted her—Jesus’ authoritative word settled the matter forever.

Shocking the Religious System

The Pharisees operated within a system where forgiveness required sacrifice, priestly mediation, and Temple rituals. Jesus’ direct pronouncement bypassed all established protocols, declaring forgiveness immediately and personally. No sacrificial system, no priestly mediation, no Temple ritual, no payment or penance—simply faith meeting grace.

The question “Who is this who even forgives sins?” cut to the heart of Jesus’ identity. Either He was committing blasphemy by falsely claiming God’s authority, or He was revealing His true divine nature. There was no middle ground—He was either a fraud or God.

Universal Principles Established

Jesus’ declaration established crucial truths about divine forgiveness. It was complete—”Your sins are forgiven,” not “being forgiven” or “will be forgiven.” The forgiveness was accomplished instantly. It was deeply personal, addressing the woman directly rather than generically. When Jesus spoke of forgiveness, it carried creative and transformative power, requiring no conditions or payments beyond faith.

This incident became the model for how Jesus would continue offering forgiveness: available to the worst sinners, granted based on faith rather than merit, accompanied by peace and transformation, shocking to the religious establishment, and life-changing for recipients.

Christological Significance

The declaration revealed Jesus’ primary mission—He came not to condemn but to forgive. Though the cross was still future, Jesus could declare forgiveness because He knew He would pay the price. His words were backed by His future sacrifice, demonstrating the messianic authority to deal definitively with humanity’s sin problem.

This incident illustrated justification by faith centuries before Paul would articulate the doctrine. The woman was declared righteous not by works but by faith, as Jesus would later confirm: “Your faith has saved you.” In declaring her sins forgiven, Jesus was previewing the great exchange of the cross—her sin for His righteousness, her guilt for His innocence.

The Ongoing Impact

Every person who has ever felt too far gone, too sinful, too broken finds hope in Jesus’ words to this woman. If He could forgive her publicly acknowledged sins, He can forgive anyone. His willingness to forgive the “obviously sinful” while challenging the “outwardly righteous” continues to confront religious pride in every generation.

For the contemporary church, Jesus’ model shows how to offer forgiveness with authority, grace, and assurance. For individual believers, these words can be claimed personally—if you’ve trusted in Christ, His declaration applies to you.

Words That Change Everything

“Your sins are forgiven”—four words that changed one woman’s life and continue changing lives today. They represent divine authority exercised with perfect grace, complete forgiveness offered to incomplete people, personal acceptance from the holy God, and transformative power that creates new life.

The power of these words hasn’t diminished over time. They still carry divine authority, still offer complete forgiveness, still transform lives, and still provide peace that passes understanding. When Jesus declares “Your sins are forgiven,” heaven and earth take notice—angels rejoice, guilt vanishes, peace arrives, hope is born, and lives are forever changed.

For anyone carrying the burden of sin, guilt, or shame, Jesus’ words to the woman echo through history as His words to you: “Your sins are forgiven.”

PROMPT: Summarize these Applications from the sermon:

• See yourself rightly
• Come to Jesus in faith 
• Reject self-righteousness 
• Respond with gratitude 
• Live as a testimony